Why I Run Toward Hard Things

Most people avoid hard things. I run toward them. That’s not because I enjoy pain or frustration — I don’t. Challenges exhaust me, frustrate me, and sometimes leave me wondering why I put myself through them. But they also help define me. Every time I face something that could break me — whether it’s hate, lies, or negativity — I refuse to give in. I won’t let someone else’s darkness dictate who I am. It reminds me of a passage from Theodore Roosevelt that Brené Brown often shares, words that have stayed with me: “It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; wh...